It’s a common human folly or habit to look suspiciously at the person who is trying to help him or her without any visible motive or any profit for himself. But it’s a truth which we should remember that fortunately there are people in this world who help and love others unselfishly. So when we receive unselfish love or help in place of suspecting we can be cautious and thankful.
It’s foolish to trust someone blindly and get hurt. But that’s better than insulting a person who was helping or loving you unselfishly.
It’s good for our own happiness that we treat acts of kindness without suspicion and with gratitude. Of course one can be wary, but there is a difference between wariness and suspicion. Wariness just keeps us on guard and suspicion narrows our vision. As a result we sometimes fail to see things which were actually good for us. End up falling in the same pit, even though we were warned.
Kingmaker 14 on 16th Jan 2011
13 years ago
Dear sister although I had to wait for long to see a new post at Agnitrisha but you have brought wonderful words for us. I fully agree with you here. In particular, I liked these lines:
ReplyDelete"It’s foolish to trust someone blindly and get hurt. But that’s better than insulting a person who was helping or loving you unselfishly."
Best Wishes.
dearest brother,
ReplyDeletei too believe in trusting and getting hurt, in place of becoming suspicious.
with lots of affection,