Satisfaction

Every human being should be satisfied about these things:

 

First, his roots, because his roots are the power that is holding him to the ground. Without it no matter how beautiful his present is it will not stay that way. If you have a root, a family which is worthy of being proud of, better be so. Because having a confidence about one’s background always adds some extra confidence and grace to his present.

 

Second, his culture and heritage, a person is incomplete without this. When we come across other human beings we often get too much influenced by their culture or ways of life, because every society shows its best self to an outsider, as a result we often look down upon our own culture. Sooner or later we feel like a fool for doing that so better not do it at all. Every culture has its share of vices and virtues, respect your culture for its virtues and try to adapt the virtues of other cultures. But don’t look down upon your own identity. It will not do you any good. Nor should you disrespect others. That certainly will do you bad.

 

Third is your parents, if they are not monsters, if they are monsters you can walk away from them and do your duties from a distance otherwise never look down upon them. They are the one who brought you in this earth and took care of you when you were too feeble to even eat. I have seen people grumble about their parents and later curse themselves endlessly when they have passed away forever.

 

Fourth, your true friends, they are the only people who love you absolutely unselfishly, with all your silly ways. So, you too should love them with all their silly ways.

 

Fifth, life in general, never grumble about your life, try to change it for better but be happy with what you have already and try to relish it as much as you can. If you grumble too much about what you have think about those who are in the last stage of a terminal disease, they will happily accept all your problems because you are and will be alive for days to come.

 

Its good to improve ourselves, that’s a thing which should be done through out our life but its foundation should lie on a happy life, happy mind. Not a miserable mind and a wretched life.