People often think that I am arrogant. The reason is I don’t think that I am inferior to any one. I always treat others with respect and demand the same from them. I think I don’t have any right to disrespect others and vice versa unless one crosses one’s limit, that is, insults or misuses the respect bestowed upon him.
I think there is a difference between humility and inferiority complex. We all should practice humility, that is, if we are blessed with a talent we should never think that we are something extraordinary. But we should always think that we are human beings and we have full right to live a life of dignity and respect.
A person who does not respects oneself can’t respect others either. He may get intimidated by others or cower before them, but can he respect them? I believe not.
I believe in a simple policy. I walk my path with confidence on myself and others. I neither think that I am inferior to anyone, nor do I think I am superior to any one. We all have our vices and virtues.
Dear sister, I agree here too.
ReplyDeleteI think you have chosen a moderate path in both the cases, respecting oneself and others.
Best Wishes.
I think you're right...I lived in fear of people...I couldn't respect them or me...It' makes a difference when you come from a place of accepting yourself.
ReplyDeletedearest brother,
ReplyDeleteI know you too belong to my league.
with lots of affection.
didi
dearest sara,
ReplyDeletewe first have to respect, love and accept ourselves (I believe) then only can we truly radiate these feelings.
with lots of love.
This is a great post and gives much to think about. I agree with you that you should feel neither inferior, nor superior to anybody. We are all human, each with our own strengths and weaknesses, and in that regard, we should understand and respect others.
ReplyDeleteThe problem with that is that many people don't see it that way. They either feel they are superior to others and look down upon them to make themselves feel even more superior. On the other hand, others feel inferior and cannot find the strength or confidence to deal with others.
And you are right, it all begins with respect for yourself. Thank you for the wonderful thoughts and post.
dear QWR,
ReplyDeleteglad to know that you share my views. thanks a lot for the sweet compliment, these were simply words from my heart, "Great post"? well... :)
wishing you the very best.