These people are those who due to one reason or other copy others. They may not have least talent or interest in that field but they due to some reason of their own cling to that field.
Apparently they are harmless, right? What harm can come if a person copies every thing you do?
Well, for an instance it can irritate you. You may lose the joy which you used to get from wearing that dress when you come out and see that he is wearing the same dress, and same dresses every day.. one of my cousins had this habit, why I don’t know but she used to buy every thing I did.
Then there is another thing about them, which is not common to every one but a large proportion of them, they try to copy you and fail.. because you have talent and they don’t. they shine, may be outshine you for a while but after that their light ebbs away like lamp and yours keeps shining with the steady light of star.
Jealousy creeps in and they try to pull you down trying every method.. finding faults, mocking, trying to misguide you…
When one has talent one should simply follow his own heart and intuitions. Should never let anyone else force him to change his ways.. he can very nonchalantly hear whatever the other has to say and keep if there is any thing worth keeping in his words, or else simply throw it all away.
Kingmaker 14 on 16th Jan 2011
13 years ago
People generally copy someone they adore, they respect and sometimes they envy. Most of the fan and followers of the movie "star"s follow the fashion just for being good looking as the person they adore. The cousin of yours must love and respect you very much, that's why she does the "copycat" act. :-)
ReplyDeleteyes trisha, I agree with Shankha here and I also think that your cousin perhaps copies you because of your respect.
ReplyDeleteWe also respect you but can't copy you.....
didi, Do you know why can't we copy you???
Perhaps, You got it..... We are males. (don't mind trisha, I'm just kidding)
Dear sister, wish you all the best.
dear shankha,
ReplyDeletei like the way you explain things, but believe me i really used to freak out when she used to buy an exact replica of my dresses or try to get the nearest replica of my spec :(
as her other actions did not showed admiration i used to think that she is just copying.. :)
dearest brother,
ReplyDeletei like your explanation.. :) and the reasoning behind your not copying me.
didi